A horse is more important to my wife than I am so I’m threatening to leave her – The Sun

DEAR DEIDRE: A HORSE is more important to my wife than I am.

She won’t come away for weekends and our sex life is non-existent.

We are both 50, married for 26 years.

I love her and do all I can to make her happy – buying stuff for her horses, clothes, whatever.

But I’ve told her I will get my pleasure somewhere else – from someone warmer – unless she makes an effort.

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DEIDRE SAYS: Threats will not bring her closer. Tell her you love her and ask why she’s not keen on sex.

Hormonal changes during menopause can alter sex drive or make sex uncomfortable.

Or was the sex you shared not as satisfying for her as for you?

Whatever the underlying cause, once you both understand it you can tackle it together.

My e-leaflet Is She Not Keen On Sex? explains more.

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