DEAR DEIDRE: WHY did I rush into getting engaged when I have feelings for someone else?
I had sex with my girlfriend on the first date, then she found out she was pregnant and moved in.
I’m 28, she’s 26. I feel we rushed into being together.
I was left some money and found us a house to buy. I proposed and she said yes. Our son is six months old.
But I’ve met my dream woman at work. She’s 25, single and very attractive. We often have lunch together.
I’m not cut out to be a dad. I struggle with doing stuff with my son. Should I try to keep my family together?
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DEIDRE SAYS: You don’t know if this woman would make you happy but you do know you fall in love quickly.
Don’t make the same mistake again. A good relationship isn’t built on looks alone.
Talk to your fiancée to try to find a connection to make things work. She’s given birth to your son and you owe it to both of them to give it your best shot.
My e-leaflet Your Relationship MoT will help, and read Commando Dad by Neil Sinclair to build your confidence and help bond with your son.
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